May 01, 2007 so what is new? Cardinals suck big time, even before they lost a team mate. Now it is even worse. Look for big changes after this season from management to players.
Mucho rain here today, lots of thunder and lightening, wind for a while had rain blowing in windows and we weren't paying attention so had three wet places in the house! OOOOps!
All of the noise today has no effect on Owen and Max, sleep right through it like it is nothing.
Why was traffic a pain in the keester today? On the way to work and the way home, traffic, traffic, traffic!!! Long lines on the highways and interstates for no apparent reason. Just one of those days you wanted to stay off of the roadways.
Bill paying day, everybodys favorite day, right? Well, maybe not...pay this credit card this much and that one that much and oooh look that one is almost paid off!!! Yay!!! Hey, what happened here? I thought this one was lower....oh yeah, had to buy that thigamajig last month, forgot about that!
Wore one of my new shirts for only the second time today, nice comfortable one, and we go to I-Hop for supper, good old Rootie Tootie Fruitie meal and guess who gets strawberry juice on his new shirt? Yeah, it was me! Wiped it with the stain stick when we got home, hope that takes care of it.
Over on Keepers blog the rude and crude comments have eased off for a few days, maybe it will end now and the idiots will find someone else to bother, really hope they just dry up and blow away and not bother anyone, but then along comes another one....do these people leave comments like this, "you are so full of yourself, big deal you have a site about multiplicity, so do a lot of other people" because they think it makes them look smart? or observant? or philosophical? or like a mental genius? or eloquent speakers of the absurd or what?
Bet that last one gets a comment! That's what moderation is for, right?
Misunderstandings are multiplying like bunny rabbits in heat, every blog i read here lately has comments or innuendos of someone taking exception to this or that or why did you say that and then oh you weren't talking about me? Sensitivity is high!!!!!! Seems most of it is misunderstandings. too bad too because these people normally support each other, not get upset with each other and tear each other apart. What it is, or so it seems is that many of the players are each having their own issues and turmoils going on, which is making each of them apprehensive and leery of words from others. Abreactions are common right now, many are writing about it on their blogs and that creates nothing but havoc with multiples.
Keepers have some time to do art now but no motivation, so i told them maybe they should let the artwork flow, in other words it doesn't have to be a pretty picture that fits in the Healing Gallery, maybe it will be a picture reflective of the goings on from the last several weeks and fit better in the Trauma Gallery.
That's it for now, see you soon!
JM
7 comments:
hi mj,
in house fights our hosue fights on blogs we have noticed usually talke place after easter and after xmas both times of high stress, just liek anything blogs can be used as stress releases for people also and if you are already struggling then thinking someones talkign about you just confirms how you are feeling.
Not all things are bad or good sometimes they just go and abuse on blogs is par and parcel sometimes. Wish keepers would do us a messy picture of life inside heehehee you know na all over the place one that we can put on our wardrobe of wonderful lol just thinking whilst typing must stop fingers typing ciao
we did comment but guess we got lost
The motivation for art is hard when your stressin. Then again sometimes once you force yourself to sit down and do it it has a wonderful impact. JIP's right holidays and mothers day isn't always such a good thing. to help with stress issues.
no there is your comment! unless you left another one, but this is all i had in moderation. Keepers haven't done any art for weeks now, i keep hoping they will feel more like it soon. As far as different systems not getting along at times...i have no idea, i think you are right about the holiday stress factor though.
hope things are going better for all of you over there in the land down under
jm
how right you are Shade!! for most multiples holidays just add to the stress and tensions. thanks for coming by and i hope to see you again
jm
Another thing that adds to the stress and tension is "they should understand". I've seen it typed, I've heard it said and I've said it myself too many times to count. While it is true that perhaps survivors and multiples *may* understand better/more completely/differently than others, they can't understand what is not said but only assume. And assuming causes problems. This comment is dangerously close to becoming extremely long, so I will just stop now and maybe blog about this topic...when things quiet down enoug for me to really sit down and write!
very true! assuming is bad idea!!! reading between the lines and deriving something that isn't there, all make for bad times ahead. thanks for writing and hope to see more of you here!
jm
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